Evolution is simply a process of evolving/changing/learning or dying. Because people are strong & weak at different things, not all people can do all 5 steps well. Not facing this reality means to may stretch further than you should. We progress forward until we face setbacks. Whether we make it through or fall permanently depends on if we can face the failure objectively and turn the loop back upwards. We will all face losing. We will lose something or someone we think we can’t live without. You might think your life is ruined and there is no way to go forward. But it will pass. There is always a path forward. Embrace the reality.